Love Skill #31 – Ask Deeper “Love Questions”


Love Skill #31

Ask Deeper “Love Questions”

By Dr. Scott Peck & Shannon Peck 


Deep love questions
take relationships to the level of
soul sharing

You’ve already learned the power of Love questions to create intimacy.

Now it’s time to learn how to ask even deeper love questions that expand love to the level of soul sharing.

Your relationships may already be good. But what would take them even higher? What would cause your relationships to soar in soul where hearts unite in bliss?

You guessed it. Deeper love questions.

For example, imagine the soul-inspiring outcomes of asking one of these questions:

  • What is going on deep in your heart that might be helpful or healing for you to share?
  • What are the biggest life lessons you are learning at this time in your life?
  • What is the biggest challenge to happiness in your heart and soul and how are you tackling it?
  • What are you not talking about because no one is asking?
  • How can I best support you?
  • “On a scale of 1 to 10, how loved do you feel today?”

And then ask the potent, revealing follow-up question:

  • “What would make that a 10?”

These questions show that you care about someone at a deep heart level. Just asking such a question takes a relationship higher because others feel the depth of your genuine caring and love.

You will discover how quickly a relationship can transcend the ordinary and leap into soul because you took this love leadership role and asked a deeper love question.

As a Love Master, you know the delicious taste of communicating at a level of soul. It’s not just an increase in love. It’s a quantum leap into a love space that most people never experience.

This extraordinary love space is just a question away. Move past any barriers of awkwardness and concern and develop expertise with these questions. Invent your own soul questions. Play with them. Observe carefully how others respond. Become an expert at creating love at the soul level.

Ask these questions often. This is an excellent way to become a great listener and to empower others.
By the way, we have a deeper love question for you.

“How is your heart changing the most as a result of reading this book?”


Love — through you —
is full of infinite questions to uplift hearts

Action Step

Give yourself the joy today of asking deeper love questions
You don’t have to be perfect. Just be genuine.
Drop Ego & take your communications to a new dimension

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Copyright (c) 2006-2017 by Scott & Shannon Peck

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